Top 10 Things You Should Not Do on the First Date to Avoid Pissing Her Off
We all know that first date is important. It can make or break your chance of getting to know someone more. It is a good gauge whether a girl will say yes or no to another date.
That’s right boys, if your first date was a disaster, then chances are, a second date is not somewhere in sight. If this is what happens to you all the time, then there must be wrong in the things that you do which you may need to change or alter.
To help you, we will be listing today the top 10 things that you should NOT do on the first date to avoid a dating catastrophe.
- Do not choose a place where there are so many temptations around
It is important to give your full attention to the woman you are dating. This will be seriously difficult if you are surrounded with so many beautiful ladies. Therefore, it will be better to choose the correct place for the first date. Choose a place with a good ambiance. If you want to know your date more, choose a place where you can freely chat with each other without distractions.
- Do not be too full of yourself
This is one of the most common mistakes especially when it comes to the first date. Although, this should never be the case….ever. It’s quite impolite to talk about yourself all the time, right?
You should not forget that conversation should be a two-way process. This means that you have to give time for the other person to talk about herself too. How would you know her more if all you do all night is talk about your favorite sports team or computer game?
- Do not ask too many questions
Let me be clear with this, it is alright to ask questions to know her more, but it can be creepy if you will ask so many questions right away. Your date may feel like you are interrogating her, which can piss her off.
In addition to this, it is also better to pick your questions correctly. Avoid questions that are not very relevant during the first date.
Here are some of the questions that you should avoid:
How many children do you want to have?
How much do you earn in your job?
Would you be willing to convert your religion for me?
Do you see what I mean? These questions are weird to ask on a first date, right?
If your date is successful, you will have time to ask these later on.
- Do not talk or hint about sex
If you want to piss off your date, then start talking about sex or even innuendos that are sexual in nature. You should remember that most women are romantic. They will not appreciate you talking about sex when you are still on the stage of knowing each other. Be gentle man enough by avoiding this topic on the first date. That’s too soon.
If you want to know more about this, you should check out another great article in this website entitled “To Have or Not to Have Sex on the First Date”. Do not also forget to read “How to Transition from Date to the Bed”. You’ll surely be an expert about this issue after reading these articles.
- Do not reveal unnecessary information about you and your family
Yes, I get it, you want to tell your date things about you, but you should be cautious of what to share. For example, do you think your date will appreciate you talking about how fed up you are with your life or how your family is known for infidelity? Of course not! I know you may be feeling so nervous that you may slip up some information about you, but as much as possible, be cautious on what you will share.
- Do not talk about your ex
Well, you should not do this for obvious reasons. Would you like your date to talk about her ex too? No? Then you should also not do this to her. If you keep talking about your ex, your date may conclude that you are:
- Not over your ex
- A loser, whom she should not date
- Do not complain about your miseries in life
Who would not be pissed if all you hear are constant complains and whining all night? If you are completely miserable with your life, then your first date is not the perfect occasion to talk about it.
- Do not wear something that is unflattering
It is important to dress well for your first date. Ladies usually prepare well for a date, so you should do too. You do not need to wear tuxedo or suit, just be presentable. Also, make sure that your outfit fits well on your dating place.
- Do not drink too much
In case you and your date decide to drink a little after your dinner, make sure that you can control yourself. One glass of wine is enough. You should never drink too much or else you will end up embarrassing yourself for sure.
- Do not criticize your date’s physical looks and outfit
Women love to hear compliments, but of course, you have to mean it. If it is the other way around, it is better to just keep quiet on criticism. It is never polite to criticize a woman even if you are the most honest person in the world. Your date will be pissed off for sure and will never ever date you again, mark my words.
These are just some of the things that you should never do on a first date. If you want to win a second or third date, then prepare for it. A date does not necessarily need to be grand in order to be perfect. Just be yourself and enjoy.
